There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. (1 John 4:18)
The “Blues Brothers'” concept of Jesus was filtered through memories of a vicious nun (“The Penguin”) who beat them with a ruler. Funny movie, but it too closely resembled how many people think of Jesus. Which is also why many people don’t think of Jesus.
But Jesus said:
For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. (John 3:17)
Jesus openly received the worst sinners with love and acceptance. He had harsh criticism for the “Penguins” of His day. It’s not that He doesn’t care when we sin, but that He knows why we do, how helpless we are and how much we are hurting ourselves. And He came to rescue us.
Remember the stray puppy you found, the one that cowered when you reached out to pet it? Somebody had been beating that dog… You needed a lot of patience to win his trust, even more to gradually rinse away his tendency to flinch at any sudden movement. But now, when that pup sees you coming, he comes to life, wagging his whole body, bounding over and jumping up to greet you with great joy. That’s because “perfect love drives out fear.” And, “Fear has to do with punishment.”
Jesus has to do with love.
He is patient.